先谋生，再谋爱

The author throws a sharp question at city girls: making a living and seeking love, which is more important? She tells many stories of different women, from Princess Diana, Chanel, Teresa Teng, Maggie Cheung to her neighbors, previous colleagues, and make-up artists. She intends to pinpoint the minefields in life for you and bring you to the warn and safe destination. She wants to tell all women: only by living a wonderful life by yourself, without worrying about losses and gains, without pleasing others, without shrinking from difficulties, or hesitating back and forth can you become a respected independent woman, living with a tender appearance and an unyielding spirit. Good girl, please make a living before reaching out to seek love.